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Abuse Resources

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Why Does He Do That?: Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men

Lundy Bancroft

The Verbally Abusive Relationship: How to Recognize It and How to Respond

Patricia Evans

Is It Me? Making Sense of Your Confusing Marriage: A Christian Woman’s Guide to Hidden Emotional and Spiritual Abuse

Natalie Hoffman

The Emotionally Abused Woman: Overcoming Destructive Patterns and Reclaiming Yourself

Beverly Engel

Should I Stay or Should I Go?: A Guide to Knowing if Your Relationship Can—and Should—be Saved

Lundy Bancroft, JAC Patrissi

Daily Wisdom for Why Does He Do That?: Encouragement for Women Involved with Angry and Controlling Men

Lundy Bancroft


Beyond B****y: Mastering the Art of Boundaries

Vicki Tidwell Palmer

Boundaries: When to Say Yes, How to Say No To Take Control of Your Life

Henry Cloud, John Townsend

Boundaries in Marriage

Henry Cloud, John Townsend

Boundaries in Dating: How Healthy Choices Grow Healthy Relationships

Henry Cloud, John Townsend


This playlist has videos that may be helpful to you in understanding narcissistic abuse.

Healing from Abuse

Healing from Hidden Abuse

Checklist for Assessing Change in Men Who Abuse Women

Lundy Bancroft

The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma

Bessel van der Kolk

Changes That Heal: Four Practical Steps to a Happier, Healthier You

Henry Cloud


If you are being abused, please seek a therapist that specializes in domestic abuse.

“Marriage counseling” is not a solution for abuse and may make the abuse worse. Please seek references in your area for individual counseling.